Kayise Ngqula mourns her husband’s death one year later: I wanted to breathe life into him

TV presenter Kayise Ngqula talks about losing her husband in a car accident in June last year.

TV presenter Kayise Ngqula talks about losing her husband in a car accident in June last year.
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Former Our Perfect Wedding presenter Kayise Ngqula has once again opened up about the heartbreak of losing her husband Farai Sibanda, recounting how she begged him to wake up and stay with her.

In commemoration of International Widows’ Day on Tuesday, Kayise shared a love letter to her late husband through her new YouTube channel After Dark with Kayise.

The actress lost her husband in a car accident on June 22 last year.

In the love letter, Kayise went down memory lane to a time when she first met Farai at a Pizza restaurant in March 2015, to Valentine’s Day of 2018, when he asked for her hand in marriage, telling her he would like to send his uncles to her home for lobola negotiations.

She also recalled the time she found out she was pregnant and how ecstatic they were that they’d be having a son.

During the emotional episode, Kayise began to lift the lid on the tragic car accident that left both her and her late husband in critical conditions.

With tears in her eyes, Kayise explained how she fell asleep due to the hectic week she had and recalls waking up to the sound of sirens. “It felt like I was in a dream … I remember feeling so out of touch, it was almost like a bad nightmare …”

After falling unconscious again, Kayise remembers waking up in casualty with her husband by her side.

“There was commotion, the doctors, paramedics and anyone who needed to be there to attend to us, it was then that I asked, ‘Where are we and what’s happened?’ I was then informed by the doctors we’d been in a car accident and that we were quite injured …

“But I looked to my right, my husband was hysterical, fighting off anyone who touched him … he didn’t want to be touched and attended to, he kept screaming my name … I then told him we’re going to be OK.”

After being informed that her husband wasn’t doing well, Kayise revealed how she couldn’t understand why he couldn’t wake up. “I asked him and begged him to wake up … I needed to hear him talk.”

After hearing the news that her husband had passed away, Kayise explained that all she wanted to do was to breathe life into him.

Zizo Tshwete thanks Khaya Mthethwa & Ntokozo Mbambo for ‘saving’ her life

Zizo Tshwete has decided to share her story to help others.Zizo Tshwete has decided to share her story to help others.
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Zizo Tshwete has decided that she’s going to share the unfiltered truth about her life, especially the tough times of depression and suicidal thoughts to help others that may be feeling hopeless.

After vaguely revealing that she had been sexually violated three times before she turned 18, Zizo opened up about the sexual violations and the impact this had on her life as an adult in the latest edition of TrueLove magazine.

The media personality then took to Instagram to share another part of her healing story with her 800k+ followers.

“There was a time in my life when I felt that my whole life was falling apart in front of my eyes. I was in a vice grip of deep depression and I was in the darkest corner of my entire life and I didn’t have the one person I wanted next to me through it all. We lost Akhumzi at the worst time of my life.”

Zizo touched on some of the suicidal thoughts she had.

“For about eight months every day, I would get in my car and on my way to wherever I would be working from on that day, I would wonder what would happen if I accelerated my car straight into that car or that tree or that building… anything that was stationery in front of me. Every single day I would wonder,” Zizo said.

Zizo went on to explain that Khaya’s sermon at Akhumzi’s memorial service and Ntokozo’s performance gave her hope and helped her to hold on when she felt like life was not worth living anymore.

“Khaya Mthethwa and Ntokozo Mbambo you will always be connected to anything I ever go on to achieve because God used you both to save my life. Thank you for your obedience! I love you!” she wrote in her caption.

Zizo explained that even though it wasn’t easy to revisit the dark time in her life, she’s decided to share her story to give hope to others.

“If you recognize any of the feelings I’ve expressed in my own story please be reminded that you are not alone. There are so many amazing organizations that exist to help us deal with a number of the issues that we have in our lives. Please ask for help! You don’t have to take your own life,” Zizo wrote in her caption.

Sheebah Karungi Biography: Age, Early Life, Education, Career, Awards, Fashion, Controversy

Sheebah Karungi moved from being a karaoke, and backup dancer to becoming one of the International stars in Uganda.

Dropping out of school without a solid plan of what to do next, she decided to make use of her talent to make more money, dancing. Years later, Sheeba Karungi is now an award-winning songwriter and singer who the youth looks up to. She’s also a fashion mogul and a top-notch model.

Here is how Sheebah climbed the ladder to her success.

Sheebah Karungi Age

Sheebah was born on the 11th of November in 1989. She is 30-years-old.

Sheebah Karungi Early Life

Sheebah Karungi was born and raised by a single parent, her mother. She was born and raised in Kawempe, a division of Kampala, the capital city of Uganda.After completing her primary studies, she enrolled at Midlands High School but didn’t finish her second senior phase. She only did her senior one level and she dropped out of school due to limited financial resources at home.

Sheebah Karungi Career

Sheeba Karungi joined the dance group called Stingers in 2004. This was after she dropped out of high school and started dancing in hopes of making a little more income and assist her mother in household duties.
In 2006, she left Stingers and joined the music group Obsessions. Sheeba Karungi developed an interest in music and she started recording with the group but eventually left them to start her solo career as a musician.

She released her first official single, Kunyenyenza to the public in 2010. The hit single was produced by Washington with credits to Cindy as a writer.

Sheeba Karungi released yet another singe, Bulikyekola where she featured KS Alpha who is a well-known vocalist in UgandaAs Sheeba Karungi was finding her feet in the industry, she released yet another single Baliwa featuring the talented Coco Finger.

Sheeba Karungi’s career peaked after she released the song, Automatic. It was written by Sizzaman and that led to a complete turnaround of her success. Following the success of Automatic and the combination she had with Sizzaman, the duo released yet another song, Ice Cream.After years of creating a name for herself in the music industry, she released her first musical project in 2014 and titled it, Ice Cream – which is a five-track Extended Play (EP) that contained hit singles including “Ice Cream” and “Jordan”. The song Ice Cream caused a massive stir, and her E.P instantly became one of the most downloaded albums in Uganda.

Sheeba Karungi released her first album in 2016 and titled it, Nkwatako and she released her second studio album in 2017.

The music industry is not easy and one has to make sure that they work hard to achieve their dreams. During her interview with New Vision, Sheeba advised the upcoming artists to stay true and work hard on their craft.

“Work very hard. It’s like a jungle out here with many animals. Be patient and believe in yourself. People are going to be harsh to you, saying you can’t make it, but you have to be disciplined and humble. Research about music if you love it.”

In 2020, Sheebah Karungi went ahead and dropped the Kyoyina Omanya remix and the loved it as she received raving reviews only.

Is DJ Tira On Grindr?

DJ Tira has set tongues wagging, after he recently posted a video on Instagram, as part of his partnership with Huawei. The DJ was promoting the Huawei app gallery and Findora app.

The video shows Tira navigating through the Huawei app gallery apps for his followers to see how convenient it is to download them, without having google.

He further navigated through the Findora App, but one the most famous social networking apps for gay and bisexual men Grindr, popped through.Although the app did not reveal whether it was downloaded or not, but some tweeps said it was downloaded and questioned why “he allegedly has” the app

Somizi Puts A Homophobe In His Place

Somizi Mhlongo has put a homophobe in his place after mocking him on father’s day.

Till this day some people display some sort of ignorance when it comes to Somgaga being a father and also a gay man at the same time.

Twitter user @SokwalisaP tried to be funny by asking “how does Somizi celebrate father’s day?”

Angered by his question, Somizi delivered a hot clapback at the troll and he revealed he owns five houses.

“I wake up. Go outside. Decide which car to drive. Then decide which house I wanna sleep at between free state. KZN. Dainfern. Fourways. Soweto. Parys,” he bragged.

Somgaga was not having any of it and asked how does the user celebrate fathers day. He also decided to become a little spicy by saying he’ll listen to his response on the radio.

“Then call my daughter to come get my bank card to spoil herself. Wena? I’ll listen on the radio,” he responded.

Kuli Roberts: Silly Puppy!

Kuli Roberts is not here for Pep Store slander! The Queen actress and TV personality clapped back at a troll who mocked her for shopping at Pep Store.

She posted a video on her social media where she is shopping at Pep. She wrote ‘Pep Stores is life’ and received a whole lot of trolling for shopping at the retail shop.

The radio personality remained unbothered by the comments as she responded to a troll who said times must be tough for the personality to be shopping at Pep. Kuli clapped back by saying she has been shopping at the store for 30 years now.She stands by her decision to shop at the clothing store by saying she is a supporter of local stores.

“Nobody said cheap hun. But affordable, if we are to agree to house these artifacts we want returned, we need space and their protection. We need to prioritize SA b4 flourishing the European fashion market.

Local products and legacies not a burial ground. Lets embrace local,” she wrote.

Kuli engaged with her followers and the author was not prepared to impress complete strangers with her fashion choices.

Her post opened up a massive conversation on Twitter with other people defending Pep stores.