Siyacela is a very traditional man and he does not believe in therapy. He told Thando that he does not want to go to counseling because he feels like he will be telling a stranger his business and he has to listen to them as well.
Thando told Siyacela that he I not doing this for only himself, but for the whole family. Siyacela was very abusive to Thando and he needs help or else he will never change and be a better husband to Thando.
Siyacela should know that’s how counseling works and as soon as he admits that he has a problem then everything will be good in their relationship. Thando wants only the best for her marriage with Siyacela but I think they are only doing it for the cameras and not because they want to do from the heart.