The pressure that black men are put under for a white wedding, a white people’s tradition, is unnecessary, when they have completed all black cultural and traditional ceremonies. Musa Mseleku was caught off guard there by MaCele. Musa has failed MaCele after he promised her white wedding 20 years ago. In this latest episode of Uthando Nes’thembu, MaCele was speaking about the promised that her husband made with her, which he has failed to fulfil.

 

 

 

MaCele has resigned from being in polygamous marriage. She said she now wants to relax and raise her grandchildren. MaCele no longer want to part take in supporting the other wives when they have their white weddings because 20 years has passed, and it didn’t happen for her. She said she is not interested in the others. Musa Mseleku was left in tears as MaCele was speaking from her heart.

According to her, Musa has failed for the 20 years that they have been married. MaCele have given him a chance to many at woman he wanted and a chance to have 20 children. In the 20 years they have been together, Musa has 10 children and four wives.



Mseleku failed his wives, all of them. He neglected their innermost wishes. We saw it with MaNgwabe, MaKhumalo and now it’s MaCele. Musa is crying because he knows he can’t do it alone. And the other three can’t do it. MaCele is the pillar in Mseleku’s family. If Mseleku could lose her, like how she says she won’t be involved in anything.