It’s sad when a kids have to grow up without both parents. Co-parenting has never been easy, as many parents have fail to work together to raised their kids in a safe environment. In the episode of #ReaTsotella we meet a mother who have decided to take kids away from the father to be raised by the grandparents, so that the father cannot see them. The father is fighting against her decision of sending the kids away from him. We can imagine how hard it may be supporting your children even though you have no access to being a part of their lives but you do it anyway cause they’re yours Healthy co-parenting would really make life so much easier and better for all parties involved.

 

 

 

Even if parents are separated, children still need both their parents. Parental fights shouldn’t cheat children the opportunity of having both parents. Apparently the man has been abusing the lady. He has been beating the mother in front of his kids. Abusing the mother of your children is equivalent to abusing your children because they will eventually feel pain after seeing their mother being abused.

His trying his best to be there for the children,even when they are far from him,must be hard missing out their lives. Buying a birthday cake doesnt mean you are involved in your childrens loves, what really happened between the mother and this guy. The sad part is that kids have been watching this abusive relationship, they will grow up with the mentality that it’s okay to do so. Now the kids must grow up without knowing their dad because the mom doesn’t want.

Some parents do what’s best for them and forget about putting the kid first, let’s hear what she will say. These two have unresolved issues from their relationship and one is using the kids to get to the other whilst the kid suffers. The baby mama is still in love with the guy, for her to punish the guy with his kids maybe it’s because he chose to move on without her. They need to stop fighting and start thinking about whats best for their kids.