Today’s episode of #Mamazala was heartbreaking to watch. Mamazala is always teaching us every weekend which tribe to avoid if you want to get married. A Lady wrote to #Mamazala because she wanted her sick husband who went home and since them he has not returned home in Johannesburg. The uncle has twisted the lobola and end up saying that she is not yet married but the R24000 was securing her until she got married.
Poor lady didn’t know that in Sepedi they twist all those terms regarding “Lonola” to suit their egos. If it was her being sick or dead it was going to be a different story. The uncle is busy saying makoti but at the same time he is saying she is not married.
The Pedi people always on this show showing makoti flames. This lady just wants her husband and nothing more. She genuinely just wanted her husband closer to her so she could ensure he is receiving the care he needs. Mzansi were left disappointed by the way Dingaan handled the matter. Dingaan did not want to go to the uncle with the lady and again when the lady mentioned the transfer 9f her husband, Dingaan said that he has nothing to do with his.
The family has refused to give her husband. The uncle refused to allow the lady to take her husband to Joburg because if he died in her care they were gonna blame her. She was well within her rights but the blame was gonna be there either way. The lady was well within her rights to airlift her husband. It was clear that family knew he wasn’t gonna recover.
It’s sad that the husband did not make it. The husband passed after a week and the wife and kids was not allowed to come to the funeral and you guys believe that she had bad intentions for wanting her husband. I also sense it when the uncle said that he does not want the family to point each other by hands when things gets out of control. Her husband passed on this year in 28 March 2022. And basically the family didn’t allow makoti to the funeral because she brought Mamazala…what a sad ending.
The wife should also blame them for husband’s death, he was deprived better helath in Joburg. She is a wife, she deserved to remove her husband without permission from uncles. Once again Dingaan failed and took side with uncle.They are husband and wife, In sickness and good health.
This lady dodged a bullet though. Imagine If they let the her take the husband and he died a week later. What kind of hell was she gonna face. The family were securing their bag. That is why they didn’t allow the lady to bury so she doesn’t have access to death documentation and information