Those who have been there say when death takes away someone you love, throughout the funeral preparations, you don’t feel the real pain. The real pain comes after the funeral, when everyone is gone and you have to face the reality alone. That is why many people seem to be doing better throughout the process of burial preparation. This is because when everyone is gone, you get to think deeply and feel the absence of the person who passed away. That is where real pain hits deep.

It’s been two weeks now since the famous Venda businessman Arnold Mudau passed away. He died in a car accident and was sent to his final test in a very dignified way, with the whole of Venda there supporting him. Arnold left his wife, Remonia, and two kids, Angelito and Katalia. Many people have been concerned about the kids since they are still too young to miss their father. They have been wondering how Remonia is holding on because her relationship with Arno was tied to an unbreakable bond. They were not just a couple but also soulmates.

Ever since the funeral, Remonia hasn’t been doing well. She has been posting heartbreaking videos on TikTok and stating how her husband’s death is destroying her. She posts her husband’s picture with a sad message almost every day. Things must be way too easy now because after the funeral there were rumours that Arnold was having an affair with Remonia’s best friend. See some of the heartbreaking videos that she posted below.

You can tell that she’s really going through a lot by the things she writes. Loading a husband is not easy and more so in this relationship because they were very close and they had so many things ahead in their lives. People have been trying to comfort her by sending good messages, but the heart wants what the heart wants. Please people, let’s pray for her to be strong and not have suicidal thoughts. For God to give her hope that things will be okay.