“Can you be touched that a friend didn’t tell you they’re having a baby? You’re just shocked when you see it on IG but you guys do weekly check ins.”, Lizo Thwala asked her Twitter followers.

I’m actually so touched he’s one of my closest friends. Do I say congratulations and move on? Yoh hayi friendships are tricky.”, she added.

 

 

 

These days, true friendships are very rare, especially for people that are about 22 years and above. When growing up, one realises their family members are their bestfriends. With that being that, it become unnecessary for people to have a solid friendship with people they grew up with.

Lizo Thwala just tweeted about her friend that didn’t tell her his having a baby. Worse the two have been friends for a very long time. She just found out from the pictures the couple posted on their Instagram page to announce they have given birth.

Mzansi doesn’t understand why Lizo was kept in the dark by someone she’ll visit and talk to almost everyday. Well if issues are that serious, people can do well with mastering privacy and keeping themselves from revealing what is happening behind closed doors. Many adviced her to not congratulate them, simply because she wasn’t told anything about them expecting a baby.

Some adviced her to not regard the guy as her friend, friends don’t keep secrets from each other for that long. Well another person told her being friends with people doesn’t really mean we should know all about them. That they had their reasons to keep their pregancy private.

“Guys pregnancy is sacred. Given the recent stats around baby and mom dying is scary. What if his partner didn’t want y’all to know? And he was just respecting that?” Murai asked.

“I know a lot of people are saying you should rightfully be upset but pregancy is actually a very personal thing. If your friend is a man it’s probably his partners wishes to share that information and you can’t take that away from her. If it’s a woman maybe she wanted to wait.” Girl with the tattoo said.