Thembi Nyathi(sis Thembi) is a medium and host of a TV show called Dloz’lami. The purpose of this show is to provide emotional balance to families living in uncertainty and validates their doubts by connecting with their spiritual guide. In the show Thembi communicates with those who are no more and pass messages to their families.

We’ve learned a lot from this woman since the show started, and it’s also given us some answers we need to know, like what happens when a person is no more ? We do learn from this show that there is indeed an afterlife. We also learned that those who passed away and left physically, they didn’t really go. They come back to their homes and stay with us while giving us protection and guidance.

So some of those lessons are that if a loved one (could be a parent or partner) dies and leaves you at home, they will come to you. If you decide to move or relocate, you should communicate with them and let them know because they can always hear from you. Just like you communicated with your mom when she was alive, you should do the same when she’s not there because she can hear you.

According to the show, these people don’t want to be forgotten because they are still here and love us as much as ever. We also learn that our loved ones see things we cannot because they are in the spiritual world. So they always try to protect us by giving us warnings that most of the time we don’t even heed. For example, they can use children, let’s say you’re going on a trip and your baby starts crying nonstop, this should indicate there may be a problem.

Sis Thembi also explained that our loved ones prefer that we continue to do things their way. If your mom has kept her house clean in the past, continue to do so even when she’s not around. The most interesting thing is that our loved ones can come to us in different forms, it can be that little bird house that always comes to you, or those little insects that you see all the time, or those little beautiful butterflies you see when you are sad.